Mary Caruso

Help find a treatment for Friedreich’s Ataxia!

Learning to all get along with along with all people  is such a great life lesson.  P1160732What better way to learn to get along than to work with a diverse group of people who come from quite an influential background.  I am lucky to say that I am privileged enough to be part of (well kind of part of) a group like this.  I am returning from a tiring two day board meeting in Philadelphia.  Yes, tiring but also invigorating because there was presentation after presentation about promising work being done and then there were hours of grueling “housekeeping” choirs that kept everyone up to date about how amazing the board worked together and how important it is to offer stewardship to others and how beneficial it has been for research, to build credibility and connect scientists, government and the patient community.  I look around and quite honestly feel like I am a cartoon character in a realistic motion picture.P1150726 There are people around me that have extensive backgrounds in so many different fields.  I really can’t say much except that I am honored and very very grateful that the future of my girls lies in the hands of these amazing people.  P1160731
What’s more is that because of these people on the FARA board, the community of patients and their families has in ten years moved from being strangers and a world apart to becoming a close and tight knit family.  In 1995 when Sam was diagnosed I was told among other things that I would probably never meet anyone else with this disease (and that is a quote!) and I left to face this lonely world alone.  But how things can change and how a little faith can keep you afloat.  Today the patient “family” consists of hundreds YES hundreds of people so dedicated and so determined to FIGHT this disease!   What more can you say than the word GRATITUDE to so many people!

There is now so much hope and so many wonderful people doing fundraisers that are making a difference.  We support each other in

enjoying what life has to offer

enjoying what life has to offer after all isn't that what all this work is for?

many ways, and doing fundraisers has proven to keep us “family” and stay ahead of the disease by forging so much research.

So, I leave exhausted but humbled, weepy but empowered and all because I sat with  a room full of extraordinary people.  I head home looking forward to optimistic days and knowing that I am very grateful that I have the ability to sign up for  Ride Ataxia in Tampa Florida on April 13th and bring a gang full of my wonderful friends to Ride Ataxia in Philadelphia in October!  We can raise money and awareness and at the same time give Sam and Alex the knowledge that we love them and we are all pushing for a treatment for them and so many others.

I must end by adding a quote from the FARA mission statement…….

Acting along, there is very little any of us can accomplish.  Acting together, there is very little we will NOT accomplish!

Thank you FARA Board, families within the parent group and so many that support us all daily!!!!!

In Peace and Love

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Always

Mary

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  1. Suzy
    6:35 am on January 23rd, 2010

    And once again Mary, you inspire me to continue the work that I do. If not for your perserverence and determination to follow your heart and help in any way possible, I dont think I would feel as strongly as I do. So thank you, again and again and again for making my life so worthwhile…living with a purpose is truly living life to its fullest! :)

  2. You are an amazing woman! Every day I think of how incredible you are to be doing this work! And what a community of friends you have built. You give all of us the gift of your friendship…and an example for us to follow.

 

This was a big weekend for us.  Last year we attended the first Friedreich’s ataxia symposium put on by CHOP and this year proved to be even better.  Last year was the first exposure the girls had to any type of conference and they really enjoyed it!  This year they started looking forward to it about a month in advance.  With all the other exciting energy going on at our “house project” this was just icing on the cake.

By midweek the footings were poured for the addition and there was tons of activity.PB100245 The girls found their way home twice to revel in the kindness and generosity of everyone in the community.  It is just so overwhelming that getting away wasn’t a bad idea anyway.  You know, timing is everything!

Friday morning we headed out!  Mary, Ally’s friend accompanied us so the four of us headed for the train station.  As luck would have it we bumped into Sarah and Couch Pont at the station so we enjoyed the ride to Philly with them! PB120282 The trip really was so much more positive than negative.  The usual bumps in the road happened, we never let that get us down.  I guess the only really aggrivating episode was when people outside the Philadelphia train station started yelling and beeping their horns because it took us too long to get the wheelchairs into the taxi’s!  Can you even imagine????  Sad so very sad!  But we overcame that initial shock and just moved along in our journey knowing that it would all be worth it.  And worth it, it was!

We got to the hotel and immediately started seeing our friends and “family”.  It is so empowering to all get together, gather our information and gain the strength we need to carry on in the war against Friedreich’s ataxia.  There were all ages there and the girls really had fun meeting everyone.  PB130284We all gathered at a reception on Friday evening and had some cool demonstrations.  We saw ballroom dancing for people in wheelchairs.  It was cool and so great to see the possibilities out there.

Saturday was just as great.  A lot of information packed into one day but people seemed to manage it all.  All the speakers were great but there was one speaker in particular that just was mind boggling!

The speaker was Rick Guidotti from Positive Exposure.

get-attachment-5.aspxHe is a photographer with a conscience :-) !  An artist with a mission and a human being like no other!

For the first time in my life I actually asked someone else why they were so happy.  People ask me that all the time.  Kind of dumb to ask that question right?  I mean can you really be too happy?  I don’t think so.  He was infectious. His energy just attacked you and you immediately sucked it all in.

Rick and Ally- two super human beings

Rick and Ally- two super human beings

He did a presentation on his work all over the world.  He focused on his work on Albinism, it is truly inspiring.  He strives to show the beauty in difference and the organization is dedicated to teach the world about the spirit of difference.  What a great way to instill the importance of kindness, dignity and respect!  I wonder if he bakes cookies also :-) ? He strives to teach people how to see people first and foremost as human beings.  Hmmmm, he is right up my alley.  Please go to his web page http://www.positiveexposure.org.  You will be glad you did!

Rick photographing Sam

Rick photographing Sam

All in all this was a great weekend and has empowered the girls even more.  We are now in our individual spots for the week.  I find comfort in knowing they have both done tons of homework and are ready to start the week with their usual optimism.  I am ready for the week ahead knowing that CHOP and FARA have educated and empowered another group of great people and here at home I am surrounded by our community working like crazy to make our home and our hearts warm.  We so appreciate all of those wonderful friends that we are lucky to have.PB100247 So I close as usual-counting my blessings!

In Peace and Love

Always

Mary

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  1. Suzy
    11:17 am on November 16th, 2009

    Meir, I am so glad you guys got to get away and enjoy it so much! I know how important it is for both girls, and you too! Never take the misgivings of other people personally! They will learn sooner or later even if you adn your girls have to be their teachers! I love you guys! :)

  2. Jen
    9:01 pm on November 16th, 2009

    Mary, It was great to see you, Sam and Ally. I wish we had more time together, hopefully soon.
    I am glad that you all got so much out of meeting Rick and learning about his work. I think he is absolutely amazing, just like you ;)